Just....ugh. Be loyal to your countrymen, not your physical country. Don't fight for glory, or medals, or to conquer.
We fought because we were pushed to it. When they set the wagons on fire with the women and children inside, and later when they tried to break down the doors and murder our men? We did what nature calls for. Like any dog cornered would do. We reacted, we fought back, to protect our families. We did not throw the first stone. We did not kill first. All we wanted was a fresh start in a new place. My ancestors came from Wales and Holland. I still can't believe this is the logic, the common sense I had to preach to my brother when he decided he wanted to join the American Navy after he graduated. He knows this. War isn't pretty. War isn't glorious and 'cool' like America had portrayed it in Hollywood movies and crap. When Uncle Sam says he wants YOU, you RUN in the opposite friggin direction. Don't fight a war that isn't even your own. We've got our own **** to deal with, and I never saw America lifting a hand to help us out. All they've done is mess up the truth of our 'rainbow nation' to the world. Deluded the world, as they do. America is not our ally, so don't you DARE risk your life for their revenge. Probably the most I spoke to him IN YEARS back then. Don't be a patriot. Don't confirm their false perspective that Boere like to fight for the hell of it, because we don't. We are a God fearing people.
Now it seems history is on a loop again.
Ten to thirteen years ago, there was serious talk about an uprising, a civil war. Because we gave the suppressed race a hand to pull them onto our level, they dragged us in by the arm, broke our arm and stomped all over it. Instead of saying thank you, they said 'we'll take that and eff your whole family over too'. This is no different to what happened in the Boer War. This is no different. Whoever thought (may you turn in your grave Mandela) that the black people could be negotiated with, could be reasoned with, could uphold a treaty of any sort, was either the greatest terrorist this world has ever seen, or he was a complete and totally idealist idiot. Yes, I'm generalising, because the general black populace do whatever they want, because they think they can, without consequence. The black people who have sense and understand that this is not the way forward for the country, are sadly few and far between. AND they're doing exactly what the white people are doing: they're leaving the country.
It's all we CAN do without starting a war.
And in the meantime, there are old folk getting slaughtered, children abused in their schools and kindergartens, young families being murdered in their own beds. People hi-jacked and shot in their own driveways. Women and girls being attacked in their back gardens or stepping into their own homes and raped. People being robbed in public spaces, ON national TV no less, during a bloody interview.
This is news in South Africa. Every. Day.
If you've ever watched the movie Rango, where the 'big boss' guy lives in luxury and his people suffer, where he's hiding all the water for himself and giving little to none to his people? Picture Zuma as the big boss guy. Only with the thirst to kill, as well, so he'd be singing songs on national TV with his deceived people about killing white folk.
I kid you not.
No exaggerations.
This is reality without the sugarcoating.
And I say deceived because Zuma is a prick in his own league. He makes his own people suffer just as much, if not worse - considering they were worse off than us from the start - but yet they still believe his lies, they still trust him, they still follow him, and x amount of years later they are still waiting for their lives to get easier. To get more. To get better.
And they're not going to. Zuma is taking it all for himself. He's renaming things and letting his people break down things. He's building nothing up. He's contributing nothing.
So I'm really hoping that the stubborn-ass Boere who are too patriotic to admit it's not going to change and that it's best they relocate elsewhere, will suddenly wake up and smell the coffee, and RELOCATE. Before Zuma gets it into his head to use them as labourers to build up what he'd let die.
Leave the country while you can. Leave it to rot into its own hell.