Oh wow, I gained a new follower in this art website and he also draws some art of his own.
Lemme check his stuff.
.... oh crap, he draws gore... must close tab...
Lemme check his stuff.
.... oh crap, he draws gore... must close tab...
@Rebel Dynasty have you ever asked the vet about a lysine supplement? Our cats are on it and, without it, they tend to have what looks like really severe allergy symptoms (it's not allergies, it's an immune system thing and a sinus thing). Dunno if dogs present similarly, but might help? I hope he'll be okay. <3 (And that you can both sleep!)
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Thinking:
One day of social media and I wanna be on hiatus again. x_x
Steve doesn't like tattoos. I have 9.Thinking about a proper way to tell my husband I want a tattoo.
We've talked about it for a couple of times and he doesn't like it at all. It would be important for me, hope he accepts it.
Steve doesn't like tattoos. I have 9.
A compromise could be he can get involved in the creative process or that you can have it somewhere easily covered up?
Nah, no worries - didn't think it was that kind of relationship. And it's completely respectful to share these sorts of things with a spouse - indeed, if someone didn't I'd be asking them why. Tattoos are forever (unless painfully lasered off) so you're both right to be cautious.My husband would never force me to obey his opinion about my looks, so it's not that I can't have it (although you didn't say that either). I just don't like doing long-lasting or permanent changes to my body without consulting him. Yeah I know it sounds like I'm thinking my body is his property but it's not that. :thumbsup:
The creative process isn't very much to get involved in. It would be a semicolon tattoo. You know, just a " ; ", nothing more. It would be located on my left wrist, it could be easily covered with a plaster, some makeup or even a piece of jewelry or a wrist watch. And as it would be small and under my wrist it's not very noticeable.
The symbolism behind a semicolon might bother him though.
The symbolism for me is about not giving up, about choosing to carry on, regardless of what happens. With my history, it has powerful connotations.
Good on you - these are hard things to deal with and move on from, but they shape a person and make them who they are now.Quite similar here. Trigger warning in the spoiler below.
I tried to take my own life when I was 16yo. There are lifetime scars in my wrist.
Now that I'm starting psychotherapy this month, to finally get through the crap I had to face every day with my mother, to get rid of the nightmares and hearing her voice every time I fail in anything, I thought that a semicolon on my wrist might be a good reminder of the strength I needed to be still alive today. It would be a "make sure it wasn't all in vain" -type of reminder.
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I don't know if I've mentioned it but I've been suffering from BED (binge eating disorder) for some years, fighting to get over it for a year now. I can't remember when was the last time I had troubles with eating so I started to think that maybe I'm over it.
Yeah, I guess I am... lost 10 kgs (22 lbs) during the summer. I nearly cried when I saw those numbers.
Thinking about a proper way to tell my husband I want a tattoo.
We've talked about it for a couple of times and he doesn't like it at all. It would be important for me, hope he accepts it.