Honestly? My family is so effed up it's a miracle we are all still here.
Sigh...
On a side note, can someone decide to be bisexual? Genuine question, folks, and one that I would very much like the answer to, if possible
When it comes to sexuality, I believe it can be rather complex and it's more like a spectrum than just black and white labels. Like, I wouldn't deny the possibility we are all born possibly bisexual and many factors can determine which side we lean more towards (or both) to as we grow older, go through puberty, etc.
In the end, no, I don't think we choose our sexual orientation. Now some personal experience.
I use to identify as perfectly straight, however things changed. I personally stopped caring and call myself heteroflexible if I had to name it lol. I seem to lean more towards girls and love feminine beauty, so if they look like a cute girl, I'm attracted. I have nothing against transexuals and would probably even date one if she was cute and a cool person. As long as they look like a girl, I'm game.
I think I am also attracted to the lend singer of this band I really like though, and he's a guy. I don't know how much as I'm still trying to figure that one out.
On the other hand, again, I sometimes stop caring and just say, I like what I like. I'm me. Maybe I'm a heteroflexible guy who just has an exception if that makes any sense. This stuff seems more like water than cement for a lot of people.
Did I make any sense or did I just babble on too long?
Oh wow, look what I just opened up about.