I honestly don't know how I got over it, either. All I can tell you is that it took a really long time to get my own act together.I don't know how I'm holding it together.
Nowadays, I can usually get over something like this rather quickly. You'll see for yourself as you naturally become colder towards the world in general.
You don't want to, of course, but it's unavoidable, especially if you want to avoid getting hurt.
As for myself... I've had to use my skepticism and anger as a kind of shield.
I've used it as a sort of "spear" as well, unfortunately, but that was to call out some extremely major (hypocritical) bs on the other party involved.
It's one of the reasons I became a sociopath, you know. It's either adapt or suffer. That's just how it is. I didn't necessarily mean to, you know, but it was a necessary byproduct in order to elude suffering myself.
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Like I said bro... PM. You don't want to drag this out where everyone can see it, believe me.
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It takes a really long time... but eventually, you do learn how to turn off your emotions.
I hate to say something as cliched as, "hang in there," but... what else can you do at this point?
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