The ranting thinking thread
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Sparda's rejected son
For Edenoi!
So somebody I care for and am close to forgot my Birthday. Days later they saw a post of one of my B day gifts and texted me: "I didn't know it was Birthday today, why didn't you tell me?" This, this right here says it all. Yes I admit that people forget birthdays and yadayada. But I'd like to point out that we are close friends.
1. You forgot, 2. You got the date wrong, and 3. have yet to simply write me a "Happy late Birthday" type text. Now we are fighting because she wanted to go eating with me and I declined because I was mad at her. That of course spiraled out of control and now we aren't talking to each other. Writing this out now kind of points out how I fu@ked up. Ah crap.
1. You forgot, 2. You got the date wrong, and 3. have yet to simply write me a "Happy late Birthday" type text. Now we are fighting because she wanted to go eating with me and I declined because I was mad at her. That of course spiraled out of control and now we aren't talking to each other. Writing this out now kind of points out how I fu@ked up. Ah crap.
Demi-fiend
Metempsychosis
If you drop some acid, this actually makes sense.
Foxtrot94
Elite Hunter
LMAO, I'm trying to figure out the scene.
Angel
Is not rat, is hamster
I'm picturing some sort of Fable-esque bandit raid, personally.
Shadow
the horror was for love
This is exactly what happened. She came out of nowhere. Suddenly the kitchen was on fire and the cabinets were screaming. The potatoes were gone and I was left with the ruins of my former life.
Actually, she just took them out of the fridge while I was sleeping. But, because we're basically out of food and buying more is too expensive so I'm kinda down to one meal a day, I ended up not being able to eat all day...even though she has cans of soup specifically for her that she could have eaten instead of my potatoes. But oh well.
Rebel Dynasty
Creator of Microcosms
It's getting harder and harder not to let my impatience win out. :/ Professional courtesy is the only reason I've kept my counsel up to now. Let's hope my restraint is rewarded, and I don't find myself in that awkward position of having to be a dick about it--because honestly, I really don't want to.
Demi-fiend
Metempsychosis
Dante's Ghost
Browsing The Halls of Fortuna Castle
Sparda's rejected son
For Edenoi!
And now we are okay because... She ended up needing me...? But the underline issue of her not considering my feelings is left unresolved, the Birthday didn't matter.
Why do I love this girl?
Also yes... I quoted my own post. This scenrero needed closure anyway.
Demi-fiend
Metempsychosis
If you want your birthday to be more important to others, then don't bend over backwards for anyone else.
Or, you can look past this (which is probably what you're going to do) and keep walking down the path you're on.
But if you're going to harbor resentment, then you're setting yourself up for an even more devastating emotional letdown the next time something like this happens.
Sparda's rejected son
For Edenoi!