What about wishing they had an STI?
Ouch! That's a bit much:tongue: Well, at least most of those things can be cured these days.
These parenting forums are so depressing. If my Dad had acces to parenting forums when he stayed at home to look after me, no way would be be saying being a stay at home dad is the hardest job in the world or complaining about it like the things I've read.
My Dad did his proper job from home to earn money and looked after me at the same time while also doing a lot of house chores, food shopping and cooking. He never once said it was hard or a job. He told me that while it was a huge responsibility (one that he chose to take on) it was the best thing he's ever done in his life.
The only thing that bothered him were people who made a big deal out of him looking after me. They assumed my Mum was dead or walked out for him to be the one looking after me:laugh: He just said he wanted to do it and that it wasn't a big deal at all as he was just getting on with life.
Even with my health complications due to being 3 months early, he never said it was hard or a job, even when I had lot of specialist doctor visits, frequent health tests and me randomly fainting, fitting or nearly dying a few times. He never once said it was hard or complained about it. So, these people on the parenting forums saying it's the hardest job ever, or they regret it...I wonder what went wrong for them to feel like that.
Having a child shouldn't be treated like a job to be put up with, it should be a privilege, especially when people make the choice to have children for whatever reason. Surely there's a good side to it or people wouldn't do it at all.