Just been watching a documentary about women who have relationships with men in prison, or on death row. These men have done terrible and disgusting crimes. I wouldn't trust men like that. These women even let their children have contact with these men. It's completely irresponsible to make a child have contact with dangerous men like that. What kind of example is this showing to a young girl? You shouldn't be setting girls up for failure by showing that it's okay to date a criminal.
What goes on in these ladies' heads that they do that instead of trying to find a nice normal guy where they live, or maybe even try online dating? Is it that the guy is behind bars, so he can't cheat? It seems like with a lot of these women, they had cheating in their past, so a guy behind bars in one way to negate it. It's a sad situation to me.
Other relationships I can't get my head around are older men and women going with younger guys and girls...I still don't understand that either. I could date a teenager because it's legal, but I'd feel like a sicko dating a 16- 19 year old and I'm only in my 20's. We'd be at completely different stages in life and different maturity levels. It makes no sense to me.
It's like someone in their 30's, especially late 30's dating someone in their early 20's...maybe 20's in general. It's a big age gap in a lot of ways. What do they see in an immature 20 something?
It seems like these older people do it because they think they have control over the younger person and think they can manipulate them.
In the case of some of these older women, bonus points if you get him while his young a dumb, have a child with him, and then somehow get him to stick around.:facepalm: Just wait till that all goes South when the young man goes off with a woman his age or younger because he's cashed in his meal ticket for a while and feels trapped with an old person with fading looks and a lot of baggage so he can't live the life he wanted.
I don't think older people factor that in. Young people need to live their lives, go places, travel, experience the world, make some mistakes, not be tied down with children and a bossy husband/ wife. It's only going to go South when they younger one realises what he/ she has gotten into and wants out because they feel like they wasted their youth and want to try and go for their dreams while they are still young.
The old people had their chance, don't ruin it for the young by entrapping them.
These younger women only going with these disgusting old men just for money will soon realise they have nothing in common, he wants a sex plaything and a house maid, maybe even a baby breeder because he was so busy building up the business in his 20s and 30s that he had no time for serious relationships. What kind of life is that?
I've had offers from creeps in their 30's, 40's and even older. What is wrong with them? They shouldn't even be at student hangouts in the first place! Aside from that, I'm happily with a guy my own age. What makes old creeps think they can compete with that?
They think money can buy youthful women? Thank goodness I'm solvent so that would never be a reason for me dating a man or living with a man just for a free ride. If I ever did that, I might as well be a hooker, trading sexual favours and house work just for an easy life with a guy I don't even like, let alone love.
I guess there are worse ways to hook a man for money. I've seen it on those Jeremy Kyle shows. These women in their teenage years and early 20s having accidental pregnancies being dumped, and then going from guy to guy to support her and the child, popping out additional children to try and keep the new man for his financial support.
What kind of life is that for the woman, the man, and more importantly, the children who are nothing more than a meal ticket and an entrapment ploy?
This is why women should concentrate on their education and get in a good career so that they have options in life that don't amount to living off welfare and mooching off of men, while being trapped in the home unable to pursue neither education nor a career that will help her or her children out of the mess. It's the children who suffer most in the end. It keeps them in poverty and sets children a bad example.
