That sort of thing, with permission from the other person involved, is fine - you're discussing something you are working on. Not the same as something along the line of "guess what XYZ about you? Copy&Paste - lookit!"
omenminator;133504 said:
i know what your saying angel but me and lod dont wont the same thing to happen agian ...... cant u closed the forum down for like a day and do the changed to make this place safer..........
black monster;133516 said:
yeah i agree with omenminator you should make it privat
There's nothing we can actually do to make the profile function private - nothing at all. It's either have it or not at all and to take it away for the sake of a few people who want to talk about stuff which they don't want others to read is unfair. Also shutting the site down even for one day will cost us massively in visitors, ads and potential new memberships - this and other sites are our bread and butter guys, our income - so to shut it down is to lose our wages, effectively. And it would be pointless because we can do nothing about it.
If you talk with someone who you know is untrustworthy with your PM's, don't speak to them anymore about stuff that could become sensitive - really is that simple. Block them if you have to, but like I said in my previous post there's no point in complaining about the actions of someone only to carry on talking to them, thus encouraging further confrontations.
Not even staff have the power to view your PM's - they really are the safest way to disclose certain things - but only if you can trust the person you are sending them to. If someone posts a PM without your permission with the intent to cause harm, then report them and they will be dealt with. But be sensible, guys - it's the internet after all.