I won't be one to judge other people's views on love. But I know my own, and that's what I keep close to. We can't forget our own values, but we must also try to respect other people's also.
I've loved since I was born, and now I have someone I truly love with all my heart and soul. If you know what you are looking for, you will know when you have found it. Like I said earlier, it's nice to have hope.
I don't really know what you are looking for personally, as I don't know you entirely. All I can say is, love is really complicated. There is no point in trying to describe it even.