I totally agree with you, Loopy. But these little things make a difference in the end of the day, and society are kind pushing people to another paths, making them care more for their own enjoyment than other important things around us like family or the people living with us in society.
Very true. Media tells people to do what makes them feel good, buy lots of things because they need them to feel happy, even if it means debt.
Plus reliance on technology is making life too easy. People rely on it too much. Like microwave food. People use it too much instead of cooking. It can't be healthy.
If i would marry someone in the future, i would prefer to have a wife that care mainly for the family we are constructing than for her career itself. It indeed can look selfish at a first glance but here in my country and i think that it's real in another countries too, child are growing without that connection with their parents because both of them have to work to make a living or their moms and daddys prefer to emphasize their careers instead of the nuclear family, you know?
Sadly in some places it is needed. Women can't afford to be at home to look after children because prices are so high that the family need her wage too. It making it impossible to have children and look after them properly. It's not fair for children at all.
When I was small, my Dad stayed at home to look after me until I was old enough for school. He didn't want me going to a nursery, so he gave up his job. But I was lucky that my parents could afford to do that. Other parents can't. It's a sad sign of the world we live in that parents can't afford to be at home with their children. And it's children who suffer the most.
We end with child that learn more with their professors and friends in the school or in the neighborhood than with their parents, people are kinda lacking in morals these days and i see this as a really big issue for the future,
Quite true. But I have also seen children raised well by their parents (Mother/ Father stayed at home) and the child was a terrible teenager- drugs, drink and stealing. Both parents were so upset and wondered where they went wrong. No matter how well a child is raised, they make their own choices as teenagers and adults, and those choices are not always the best ones.
i think that kind of thing only can be taught by fathers or moms as a child start to learn about the world, after this they will search for their own paths but it's still important for them to learn all the things that make our civilization come to what it is today and how our ancestors constructed all this, and this is why we have to respect their traditions, and i think that we are in debt to them, because if not for them we would never had come to life (and i think that we "pay" this debt by growing our very own childs and the continuation of our heritage with care, making them good man and woman for the future) . It looks like a really "old" vision of the world, but still, i think that it's really important for society in general, and the great ammount of divorces (for example) and things like that are a side effect of people thinking more about themselves, their enjoyment of life and their professional careers than in sustaining their very own familys.