Thinking...
Is forgive and forget really the way to go?...
I personally always saw forgiving and forgetting a rather peaceful and religious way of looking at things. In nature that is, and in my own opinion. As not to offend anyone here.
However, I sometimes think and feel rather differently. I tend not to hold grudges. And dwelling on things I find seems to make it worse on your own mind, that it would be to just 'try' to ignore the issue. Depending on the size and the scale of the issue, I would say judge from that in itself. If it's something really serious, probably give it time to think on your final decision. Otherwise you might make a decision you could later regret.
Considering I don't know the full story. And don't wish to know, because it's none of my business. I probably couldn't provide you with any further advice. But I hope that whatever I have managed to say will suffice as enough for you in terms of some friendly partial advice.
I'm not one to hold grudges either, I'm too much of a dang softie if you ask me...
It's like I get caught up in the moment where I'm angry and frustrated and push everything and everyone away only to realise I need them as much as they enjoy having me around...
I find it a lose lose situation sometimes and it always leaves me thinking that same phrase: Forgive and forget?...
But if I forgive them, are they willing to as well since on both sides it's a fault...
I just wish I knew what the other side was thinking...:/Don't worry about it. It happens in life sometimes. Me and my girlfriend are the same near enough when we argue. Although obviously we avoid the petty arguments, things do still crop up. Despite knowing the usual routine, we push each other away. And then we realise that we both need one another and are strongest together.
If both of you do feel you are at fault and neither of you want to hold a grudge, think of another phrase. Kiss and make up![]()
I just wish I knew what the other side was thinking...:/
Because honestly, I'm scared as Hell...Well there's no harm in asking. Why not go ahead and put it out there?
I personally always saw forgiving and forgetting a rather peaceful and religious way of looking at things. In nature that is, and in my own opinion. As not to offend anyone here.
However, I sometimes think and feel rather differently. I tend not to hold grudges. And dwelling on things I find seems to make it worse on your own mind, that it would be to just 'try' to ignore the issue. Depending on the size and the scale of the issue, I would say judge from that in itself. If it's something really serious, probably give it time to think on your final decision. Otherwise you might make a decision you could later regret.
Considering I don't know the full story. And don't wish to know, because it's none of my business. I probably couldn't provide you with any further advice. But I hope that whatever I have managed to say will suffice as enough for you in terms of some friendly partial advice.
Same here, Lacey from Flyleaf.. the lead singer for my favorite band resigned.... *sob*
Adam from Three days GraceSame here, Lacey from Flyleaf![]()
No!! They're amazing! This cannot beAdam from Three days Grace![]()
Wait, WHAT?!...Adam from Three days Grace![]()
Wondering if there might be some way for me to get off this island for good. I think it's goin' down like the Titanic. Soon I won't be able to afford to live at all.
Same here, Lacey from Flyleaf![]()
Adam from Three days Grace![]()