You need to show her more empathy. She knows the foundations of our belief. She made a conscious choice to turn away from God and follow another path - what her relationship is with God is her business, we don't know if this is His way of shaping her into a stronger believer when she does come back to Him. God's hand is in everything. I'm not condoning other religions, and I'm not defending her either. I feel, like you do, that she made a silly decision with possible dire consequences. I think she's a nice person too, just from posts on the forum and stuff, and I wouldn't want to see her get hurt either. And yeah, I know, I'm scared for her too. So I do understand the need you feel to force her back to God. But, you know, God loves His children and He won't let them perish without giving them a decent chance to follow Him.