It was just something I didn't think you would ever say, is all. I wasn't expecting anything, but that still somehow caught me by surprise. XP
Those two sentences suggests that you were surprised when I said something I usually don't. Making me narrow minded, no?
It is not unneccessary you tool! I need to ask to make clear for myself! I suffered sh*t when I never asked and only thought for myself: "Maybe they think I'm an idiot? Maybe I'm just a stupid jackass to them?". That hurt me constantly! If I ask I know I can get an answer.