lol - you'd be more than welcome :lol:
Yeah, I've got one sister and 7 cousins and they've all "done better" than me - except I'm the one with no mortgage, no debt, a substantial disposable income and a family. Neither Steve nor I need to have a job (although we both do) yet it's never good enough for my family. All they can see are all the things I've done wrong in their eyes and it gets more than a little tiresome after a while. I'm doing what makes me happy - if I want to work, I do. If I don't, then I don't. I can literally spend each day doing what I like, as can Steve, and it gives us the kind of flexibility that any family with kids would envy. I think that's ultimately what every working family strives for, really - the ability to down tools when you want and spend time with the people who matter most. Just so happens we get to do that in our 20's rather than our 70's.
Bugs the hell out of my sister no end - we get on very well but when she has her tantrums from time to time, up comes the whole "at least I work for my money" thing - I just say "yes, as do we. Difference is, we make our money work for us. It's called saving. Try it some time." Never goes down well :lol: