When something consumes your life to a point where you are thinking about it constantly, then you have a problem on your hands.
When I play Devil May Cry 4, I play it for only 30 minutes at a time. Sometimes longer but it's usually around 30 minutes or so. I've gotten pretty good in terms of executing combos and I have also made several videos about how to execute similar combos that I do. My passion for DMC4 exists only within the combo system. Aside from that, I don't really drive too far in the game itself since the combo system is all I really care about. However I don't think about it all day since DMC4 isn't the only thing on my mind.
Since I also play Project M (A mod for Super Smash Brothers Brawl) I compete in tournaments whenever I can as well as practicing with people in order to get better. Sure I spend a lot of time at these tournaments but I also get to meet new people while I'm there. As well as this, the people that I do meet are fairly cool. But none of them really "over obsess" themselves for Smash since they compete for it. And if it seems like they are overly committing themselves in Smash, it's because they are competing for money.
But if someone is literally neglecting daily responsibilities for gaming, then they are being irresponsible and obsessive about their hobby. If someone plays video games frequently without letting it control their daily lives, then they have found a balance for it and they only have a passion for gaming. Not an obsession.
If it turns into an obsession then it's not a passion anymore. Simple.
You are so right on the last one. So let's prevent our passions turning into our own obsessions.
On another note regarding to the rest about DMC:
DMC4 indeed has a good combo system. And Dante's "Style Change" makes playing as Dante even more complex, let alone switching both firearms and Devil Arms. I prefer using Dante more than Nero.
Like LysseC and Loopy, I am for BOTH DMC AND DmC!
Some of the things repetitive in the DMC series are repetitive normal battle tracks (no wonder why some of the song titles have "generic" in it; those songs may be awesome, but the only real reason they were so memorable is repetition through the tracks being overplayed) and
static environments, hence why the old games ran in 60 fps. Even Ninja Gaiden Sigma ran in 60 fps due to static environments! NG2/NGS2 ran in 30 fps, but it still looked playable!
Back on topic:
I agree there
are good
and bad changes. That's why I don't care much about change in general at all. In fact, the one reason why I don't give a damn about change is that
life is all about change. We know many things, even people, do not last forever...