"Gentleness,caring,sweetness etc' Those are TRAITS which ANYONE should posses,not just women.
Traits that were listed are 'generally' accepted as feminine in a woman but did not in anyway imply that they were not applicable to men or ANYONE. However, it is accepted they make woman feminine. Which contradicts your claim that women who can be opposite of these traits can still be feminine. I would agree if there are any other means besides these traits listed that make a woman feminine but not the opposite of ANY trait listed, in a woman that makes them feminine. Comprende.
So,if a man is gentle and caring he's not considered manly but feminine. Don't bring that up.
I never said that, you are 'generailizing'.
I know guys who think that if one of them shows compassion or cries he's considered a 'p*ssy'. Those need a reminder that feelings are totally human and so is crying.Not just something women do.
And it's nothing wrong in showing a weak side,but many men don't want to because it's considered 'feminine' and it makes them less of a 'true man'. THIS is a stereotypical way of thinking,even for men.
I don't quite get the analogy there. We weren't discussing on wat makes men 'masculine' but how a woman is 'feminine'. To that my answer is, a woman is not feminine jus because she has a pair of boobs. Femininity is from character,personality and the way they look. Its ignorant to say a woman who wears pants(Which is general attire of men) is not feminine. But is also not acceptable to say a tomboy is still feminine jus because she has a pair of boobs.
There can be men who don't like violence,but at the same time there can be women who practice it.Just look at women in martial arts,there are plenty. And they can kick ass and many guys are afraid that a woman can take care of herself and be herself without being LABELED.
I was talking about what feminine is considered in society and how many women are stressed about it because they fear that it if they do something not feminine they might be labeled as unladylike and not a true woman. What's the matter if a woman can fight? What if a man can't?
Okay, When women choose to be feminine , I don't think it is to jus get a guy or attract men. Certain job profiles demand women jus cuz of their feminine nature. Eg: Air hostesses. Also Beauty pageants need women to be feminine. Ofcourse, Women who aren't feminine in every sense of the word can compete and still win but they would have to satisfy categories that need them to be feminine. Its not jus out of stress from society but women are naturally feminine and there is nothing wrong in expecting women to be feminine cuz its natural.
I don't know about you,but I'd be happy to live besides someone who can feel comfortable near me and won't act in a certain way to prove ANYTHING.
Again, I never said i won't credit women who aren't feminine in every sense of the word. What exactly is wrong in expecting a female character to be feminine?????There is a natural way of things and i enjoy things in their purest forms. I never discredit any non-feminine characters but compared tomboys(who aren't strictly feminine).
My point about Eva wasn't about that. Eva has a different story. Eva put her life in danger knowing that there won't be anyone to save her and she protected something she cherished. She didn't have to wait for her knight to save her because she was on her own,she didn't have anyone to rely on to save her. Besides this,Eva doesn't give the feeling of a stereotypical damsel in distress.
Kyrie never relied on nero. Nero felt obligated to protect kyrie. In fact, Kyrie almost denied nero when she found he had a demon arm(At the end of credo boss battle). Hardly relying on nero or credo.
Then again,who defined the term 'FEMININE'? I tell you who,not women,but mostly men. (not all,so I won't be generalizing)
What does it mean? What does MANLY means? These terms were looked in a stereotypical way for ages,and if you don't behave accordingly to them you basically are an outcast and you're looked down because you're not fitting in their selfish STANDARDS of what they think is or isn't feminine or manly.
Sorry, as i said, Anyone with boobs can't be accepted as feminine.
Again, I wasn't talking about innocent ones ( I repeat nobody is innocent in essence because we're human beings)
Hmmmm.....
I don't like innocent characters
You were saying?????
I don't try to degrade the term feminine,but I want to prove that women aren't only reduced to that and that many of them are capable of many things.Just likethere are male cooks,there can be scientist women but that doesn't make them less of a person.
Being feminine or manly doesn't define you as person.
Women can wear dresses in their free time but at the same time they can work in automobile repair shops.Men can wear large clothes and work as a babysitter. And these people don't need anyone to define who they are because that's their choice.
I can wear a suit and the next day wear a dress.What's the deal in it? I can play video games the the next day bake a cake.
Why should we refrain anybody from who they really are and what they like and be considered not feminine/manly?
Again, I never said women who weren't feminine weren't capable of anything. When did I say that???Could you please quote me if i am wrong.
You generalize. And you gave that example as a way to say that women are the ones who should take care of the children because they have maternal instincts. What about mothers who don't have children or those who even kill their children? Where is their maternal instinct? What if a father takes care more than the mother? Is he considered feminine? Does that mean he lacks what many call 'parental instinct' ? No.
And this is where the justice system is wrong.
They favor the mother simply on the fact that she has maternal instincts.What if that woman doesn't have any love for her child but the father DOES? The father won't have the custody of the child because the mother was choosed to take 'care' of it even if she doesn't love him,it's because she possesses that 'maternal instinct'. See where this is wrong.
Woah, Woah, Woah..... I said a mother is favored in a custody battle of a very young child. Custody battle is when parents divorce and when either party does not agree to give up custody of the child. In such cases, If the child is very young, Mother is favored. Also there is a thing called 'maternal instinct' which is a special bond shared between mother and child. Can you give me a word for special bond between a father and a child???In fact a mother goes through 9 months of carrying the baby in her body which a father does not share.If mother is proven to be unworthy in any way to raise the child, then yes, Father would get the custody. But everything is fine with both father and mother, Favor would still be mother.
Femininity is a natural characteristic of female characters and there is nothing wrong in expecting them to be feminine. It only means i enjoy things in their purest forms and never said a non-feminine female character isn't capable of anything.In fact, You were claiming that feminine characters are nothing more than "Good looks" and always need a hero to save them.