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I'll be honest. I think he should ask her. But, as his friend, do you think he'd be able to take another rejection?
Just because he's obsessing, it really isn't your fault. Like i said on the post. People of the opposite s*x do tend to put a strain on friendships.
Are you afraid that if he does something stupid, you'll end up feeling guilty for it?

It is not your fault, he's very lovesick by the sounds of it.
I dunno if you read what i put in the poll you posted, but all my friend could talk about was her fiance. Sorry to ask but Are you sure he hasn't asked her already, and been knocked back? That can really cut someone up.

ok well something good happened, you and nicole, I mean. about your friend maybe the girl he likes will talk to him, and maybe then things will get better, who knows? btw sorry i wasn't on yesterday I had a lot of school work to do.

surely it can't be your fault. From what i read on your post your friend is doing it to himself.
Don't mind me asking, why do you think it is your fault?

I just found your poll. Just wanted to tell you that i put something.
I'm sorry.

Well, i'm glad you're okay.
I take it your friend isn't listening to what anyone is saying to him...

Hi. Hope you're okay.

Well I am going to go to bed, k. I'm tired. and I have school tomorrow. I'll most llikey be on tomorrow night after 6:30 if I am not on earlier than that. The wifi connection at my college is unpredictable. so that's why i'll be on so late.

perhaps it really is what I said....he's going through a hard time right now.
He says he doesn't want to be your friend, because maybe somehow he believes that he has changed for the better, and you want him the way he was....and he doesn't want to be that way...I don't really truly know that situtution. and in venting you don't really have to tell me all your the secrets of your heart. You can just say something like, I'm angry, or sad, and I'll say someting like I understand or I've been there, man...etc. Like I said before, I've been through some tough stuff, although you may have been able to tell that from my taste in music.

Well I hope it works out for you with her. And I'll be here as friend to you, when you need someone to talk to. I may not have all the answers, but I am pretty good vent outlet. or at least that's what my friends tell me.

what about family..?

well just remember it's his loss. if he doesn't want to be your friend anymore...i know it hurts. If comes around then great, if not then life goes on right?

did he say that?

i c....maybe he's just going through a hard time right now. I'll you can do is be there for him. When he wants to listen to rational thought....He'll come to you right? I went through a really hard time, a few years ago. I wasn't doing very well in school. My parents got divorced, my dad moved out, and I stayed in the middle of nowhere with my mom. But I am better now. I live in the city with my dad and his girlfriend. And I am back school now. and visit my mom on weekends. But when I was going through the tough times, it was comforting for me to know that my friends were there for me if i needed them.

oh wow that's a lot to deal with

im sorry to hear that...

oh im sorry to hear that...but I was distracted by fma so i didn't even notice that you hadn't responded for a while...

forgive me if don't respond right away I'm watching the new fma series...

yeah ok well sometimes being foward is a good thing...

yeah that's good