I think this is ****ed up!!

[Vergillicious]

So a friend of mine texts me that she has been sex chatting with this guy, and knowing that he had a freaking girlfriend but she kept doing it anyways. And that the guy was a freaking "unconscious flirt" really?! You must be pretty gawd damn retarded! Anyways she totally freaked out on me..and I just don't know how to deal with that sort of stuff.

 

[Terrutas]

Lies, deceit and betrayal. Eh?

Well, I'm already used to those.

But yeah, that's ****ed up.

 

[Vergillicious]

Well the guy will have alot of explaining to do when his girlfriend finds the text messages, & he can't look shocked & think she's wrong because he knows he's to blame.
2. Your friend.
Ask her how she would feel if she had a boyfriend that's sex chatting with another girl.
Then ask her why continue to do it.​

Ugh..she has done the same thing with her bf and showed them private pictures of herself -_-# she never used to be this way. She used to be shy and innocent. Now I see she's just a whore and its really sad cause I really care about her :'(

 

[Vergillicious]

I don't even know why she's like this. She told me that ever since she got into a relationship she started to change for the worse. Like she got corrupted or something. I don't think she even knows. Maybe cause she's jealous of what other people have, loneliness..I really don't know..I've known her for 11 years. And she has changed very badly.

 

[Ryuuou]

I don't even know why she's like this. She told me that ever since she got into a relationship she started to change for the worse. Like she got corrupted or something. I don't think she even knows. Maybe cause she's jealous of what other people have, loneliness..I really don't know..I've known her for 11 years. And she has changed very badly.

Jealous of loneliness? I suppose I should be glad then? Not really happy about it but it could have been worse. It's not a good thing when people change like that. Especially not your friends. Something like that I can't accept either. Not to be rude or anything but has she lost it? Stopped believing herself or something. My mom have a friend that pretty much is lost. He's much older but I tell my mom that there is nothing she can do. Of course she is sad about that fact. About your friend. She is still young so it should be possible to do something. Are you very close friends? You should talk to her personally. See if she can be more honest about herself. To me it sounds like she is not telling everything. Hope you can figure it out. Sad to hear stories like these...

 

[Rayl]

Somebody gets into a relationship and changes for the worse? Oh yeah, never heard THAT one before.

Seriously, some people just get off on seeing how long they can treat other people like **** before either they get bored with their immature little games or dumped.

 

[Vergillicious]

Jealous of loneliness? I suppose I should be glad then? Not really happy about it but it could have been worse. It's not a good thing when people change like that. Especially not your friends. Something like that I can't accept either. Not to be rude or anything but has she lost it? Stopped believing herself or something. My mom have a friend that pretty much is lost. He's much older but I tell my mom that there is nothing she can do. Of course she is sad about that fact. About your friend. She is still young so it should be possible to do something. Are you very close friends? You should talk to her personally. See if she can be more honest about herself. To me it sounds like she is not telling everything. Hope you can figure it out. Sad to hear stories like these...

Sorry, she's jealous of what others have that she doesn't. Like she told me that the guy that she was doing that stuff with, she was like "omg! He's everything I want in a guy!" And I'm like are you ****ing serious!! He's not a good guy he's just using you, to like him and get his "jollies" off on. Cause apparently he's not happy with what he's got. And he's pulling you into him. She sent me the texts and said that she was telling him that what he was doing was wrong, that he has a gf and that he shouldn't bet telling her all of this. But she still kept on going with the sextting..ugh..yeah..I can't accept the fact that she has done this. Ruining other people's love lives. He was just tempting her hard. And she was sinking fast. She is so easily tempted..

 

[Ryuuou]

Sorry, she's jealous of what others have that she doesn't. Like she told me that the guy that she was doing that stuff with, she was like "omg! He's everything I want in a guy!" And I'm like are you ******* serious!! He's not a good guy he's just using you, to like him and get his "jollies" off on. Cause apparently he's not happy with what he's got. And he's pulling you into him. She sent me the texts and said that she was telling him that what he was doing was wrong, that he has a gf and that he shouldn't bet telling her all of this. But she still kept on going with the sextting..ugh..yeah..I can't accept the fact that she has done this. Ruining other people's love lives. He was just tempting her hard. And she was sinking fast. She is so easily tempted..

That sounds really complicated. I wonder why things have to be that always. So basically the guy is playing with two girls? What the hell is that for?

 

[Vergillicious]

That sounds really complicated. I wonder why things have to be that always. So basically the guy is playing with two girls? What the hell is that for?

Beats me! She told me that she deleted him off her fb and contacts and changed her number. But still..that won't change the fact that everything already happened -_-..I don't know if I can talk to her anymore..

 

[Ryuuou]

Beats me! She told me that she deleted him off her fb and contacts and changed her number. But still..that won't change the fact that everything already happened -_-..I don't know if I can talk to her anymore..

I wonder if she is being tracked and tempted. That way maybe? She can't say no or something?

 

[Vergillicious]

She's not a sexual person but if she starts sextting she goes wild and wants it bad. I read the texts and wow!! I can't believe I just read those. Pretty pathetic if you ask me. There's no excuse for what she has done..

 

[Ryuuou]

She's not a sexual person but if she starts sextting she goes wild and wants it bad. I read the texts and wow!! I can't believe I just read those. Pretty pathetic if you ask me. There's no excuse for what she has done..

Sounds really bad. Never a good thing to rush it. People say to me just believe in it and be patient. That's what I'm doing. Even if it is to suffer loneliness. Better that than lose myself. Anyday.

 

[Vergillicious]

Sounds really bad. Never a good thing to rush it. People say to me just believe in it and be patient. That's what I'm doing. Even if it is to suffer loneliness. Better that than lose myself. Anyday.

I'm literally her only friend. And I can't just abandoned her. But I don't want to pity her either. GAH! I don't know what to dooo!

 

[Ryuuou]

I'm literally her only friend. And I can't just abandoned her. But I don't want to pity her either. GAH! I don't know what to dooo!

If you have been friends for 11 years you should not leave her. My opinion though but I don't know about this so I can't say much. Just hoping for a turn in things.

 

[Vergillicious]

If you have been friends for 11 years you should not leave her. My opinion though but I don't know about this so I can't say much. Just hoping for a turn in things.

To be honest she needs to learn the hard way that she can't do that ****. I think that she needs to get what she deserves to be honest. I won't leave her, but I kind of font want to talk to her for awhile. I just want her to think about things..she really needs to. And if she decides to keep doing this and not change then I can't do it anymore...

 

[Ryuuou]

To be honest she needs to learn the hard way that she can't do that ****. I think that she needs to get what she deserves to be honest. I won't leave her, but I kind of font want to talk to her for awhile. I just want her to think about things..she really needs to. And if she decides to keep doing this and not change then I can't do it anymore...

Sounds like a good decision. Distances between close ones can be good at times. There are times when my mom and I get too close sometimes and we just start to quarrel. After some distance it eases the tension between us. About your friend. If she learns she might come back. If not it's a sad loss. Good luck sis.

 

[Loopy]

To be honest she needs to learn the hard way that she can't do that ****. I think that she needs to get what she deserves to be honest. I won't leave her, but I kind of font want to talk to her for awhile. I just want her to think about things..she really needs to. And if she decides to keep doing this and not change then I can't do it anymore...

You're doing the right thing. This is her mess, she needs to think about what she's doing and not pressure you with it.

If she tells you she wants to change, then let her talk to you, but if she does it again, then it's best to cut ties. People like that don't change. They say they want to, but something always pulls them back. It's almost like addiction.

No point putting your life on hold to sort out her mess.

 

[Vergil's Waifu]

I had a friend once (well, I say friend).
She met up with this guy behind her bf's back (I was there at the time). I got a phone call later that evening from her asking me if I'd go out with her the next day so she could meet this guy again (ya know, using me as an excuse to get out)...it was the final straw to our friendship... She'd used me enough, I certainly wasn't going to help her mess up her relationship.

 

[ROCKMAN X]

Seriously Guys Texting sucks .

Suicide over Facebook ? Beating kids over posting a stupid dancing video and now this getting overexcited over some text messages.

WTF IS wrong with people these days ?

 

[Loopy]

Seriously Guys Texting sucks .

Suicide over Facebook ? Beating kids over posting a stupid dancing video and now this getting overexcited over some text messages.There was a guy who actually killed himself on video site Nico Nico douga. People just watched and did not report it.:O

WTF IS wrong with people these days ?

People used to talk face to face when they had a problem. These days they find out on facebook. It causes too much confusion and arguments.