A trend in discussions and something that's happened in the comments of friends' work. There's been a lot of harassment and bullying from people who like the main ship and they're starting to get louder again so I'm hesitant to even touch on certain characters or topics or opinions just cuz I want them to ignore me. But...like...I'm also really sick of pretending I'm cool with their enforcing certain dynamics and things as "correct" when...there's no such thing in fandom. It's supposed to be a place we can all enjoy, not a hierarchy of "I'm correct because I belong to the majority opinion and all of you are stupid and wrong for believing otherwise". I've done spite writing in the past and it worked really well for getting those negative feelings out, but...like...it also kinda made that fandom less enjoyable because I just equated it with having to fight instead of enjoying things.