Loopy
Devil hunter in training
This doesen't seem to me a man doing his parenting job, but a man acting out of fury (as much as his fury could be justified). This doesen't seem to me a thought out punishment, but an enraged, emotional, reaction.
Totally agreeing. It was more like the guy acted on impulse. It's honestly giving a bad name to fathers and making them out to be brutes who should never be trusted with their own children. No wonder fathers are getting banned from childcare, helping on school trips and taking part in parent toddler groups.The image is still that men are violent, even to their own children and that they can't be trusted with someone else's child in case they hurt or molest them. This father is not helping that image by being so savage.
Now, I can agree that maybe the girl deserved a punishment, and that nowadays parents can be too soft, but there are better punishments than physical pain. Like not letting the girl go out with her friends for a period of time, or deny her the use of her PC, or something like that. I can even agree to a little spanking, but NOT TO WHIPPING, because it causes just too much pain. When I misbehaved, my father used to slap me, but he never did it with too much strength. The amount of pain was just symbolical. Using a belt causes a lot more of pain, which is unnecessary. Lessons could be taught differently.
Or here's a good thought, maybe the parents should monitor what their child does on the internet? Maybe buy some software that blocks sites or filters what the child can see or sites they can go on.It's better than beating the child up.