So is it OK if your in a relationship and your boyfriend watches porn? Would you accept it? Does it make you feel that he's not attracted to you anymore?
Uh...no? :/ The whole point of porn is to....accelerate the pre-sex process. A lot of times, couples have trouble getting it on at first, so porn is there to help them get in the mood. It's like the blue and pink pills, only without introducing chemicals in your body.
As for him watching it himself, same thing really. Or maybe it's like....a reference manual lol? I knew this girl who had this move, the "drop and twist", claimed she saw it off a porn vid.
Or...that too much information? You know, no! You asked.
So is it OK if your in a relationship and your boyfriend watches porn? Would you accept it? Does it make you feel that he's not attracted to you anymore?
But I don't feel that I'm good enough for him..I doubt and don't have faith nor believe..i have trust issues.. BadWhether it's OK is up to you... and them.
The context is what matters. In some relationships it's a no no, in others it's fine. Really depends on the individuals involved and their views, there's no blanket yeah or no here.
But since it's often an issue of trust... if you know the other person's attracted to you I guess it shouldn't matter. That kinda knowledge/trust needs time though
Is it OK?
That depends on your view on porn and what reason he has for watching it.
Personally: HELL NAW. The only boobs my man's allowed to ogle are MINE (and whoever is showing off on GoT but that's okay because we watch it TOGETHER)
Would you accept it?
Again, totally depends on whether it bothers you or not.
Personally: In my younger days (gosh I feel old saying that), I was very against it. But the more I nagged at him about it, the more he watched in secret. So I figured, ah well, let's just let the cat out of the bag and let it be. So I started buying him porn mags, going to the hidden porn section at the video store (yes they do have those lol), etc. Over-indulge him in it. And then one day I thought, okay, I'm over this now, so I ripped up all his porn magazines and left it under his bed to clean up. Told him if I ever catch him watching porn without me again, he's going to be in super deep oop:, and we only watch when I'm in the mood for it.
Does it make you feel unattractive?
If it makes you feel like you're lacking something, talk to him about it.
Personally: early in our relationship, it made me feel insecure, which is why I guess I told him it's okay as long as I can monitor how much he watches. But nah. Have you seen those porn girls? I don't think they're pretty, or attractive, or appealing in any way. They just look like groomed, fake boobs who act like animals.
I mean seriously, if women are to get a complex about female porn stars being better looking than them, then guys should get an inferior complex at the size they are compared to male porn stars.
Porn is fake. Fake women, fake men, fake fun, fake story lines, corny music that makes me cringe. Fake and boring.
Wait... what?Porn is fake. Fake women, fake men, fake fun, fake story lines, corny music that makes me cringe. Fake and boring.
Porn is fake, it's just acting, their orgasims are not real.Wait... what?
...Porn is fake, it's just acting, their orgasims are not real.
that's totally a thing with men you want to crush a man say he has a small dickI mean seriously, if women are to get a complex about female porn stars being better looking than them, then guys should get an inferior complex at the size they are compared to male porn stars.
But I don't feel that I'm good enough for him..I doubt and don't have faith nor believe..i have trust issues.. Bad
I've seen some that definitely were real...Porn is fake, it's just acting, their orgasims are not real.