yea well...a couple years ago i was jealous...then last year i was better...the only thing that made me insecure was that i wanted to see my ex at least once a week cuz we went to different schools...it was most usually on the weekends though..and she became a total bitch about it...but..i had reasons i couldn't do every other week...psychological factors, yes....see...my parents are divorced...and my dad had to see me every other weekend...but when i was there he'd never spend time with me...see...she wanted the change in me to be instantaneous...but..it came..slowly...so..i was a lot different than i was with my first ex....but...yeah...she always yelled at me for being insecure when she was the insecure one