Regardless of the number of times Aka has driven me up the freaking wall I don't see him as a bad kid. That's why I keep giving him the benefit of the doubt and don't just put him on my ignore list. I don't think moses, or SpardaTM are that bad either. They bring well thought out and interesting points to the discussion. I think that's great. I may not like people like that very much, but I don't hate them or think they're terrible and I'm so great.
I haven't done anything to get in trouble yet, but that doesn't mean I won't ever. I've done stupid things I'm not proud of, but sulking won't solve problems. The best thing for me, for anyone that makes mistakes, is to forgive and move on. I don't think anyone here is a bad person. Sure some people make more mistakes than others, but no one is without fault which is why this "I'm so gosh darn cool and perfect" attitude I see in some members makes me sad.