almost everyone thinks i'm just being stupid and unfair and controlling towards her..i'm just paranoid and protective and all..i don't want to lose her..as a result i may be pushin her away from me...she says i'm not though...it's just...i have a belief in karma to where what u do has effects what happens to ur descendants, not necessarily urself..my grandpa took my grandma from another guy...so it does happen...is it so stupid to worry about it happening to me?