Oh god no, its not. 0.0 Lolz. I mean, sure it can be a bit easier, but its still nerve wracking. ^^ Trust me. ^^ It took me 4 weeks to work up the courage to ask her out.... I was so nervous cause i thought that she would tell me that she didn't swing that way, and that she wouldn't want to talk to me anymore... but when she said yes, i almost died. ^^ And we've been together for nearly 2 years. ^^