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Exactly. That is the same mistake as I did.

Dude, just for now, forget your emotions and just be a friend with her. Think about it a little later. Nothing will be gained in troubling with it more, just be yourself, show your positive sides, and be a friend. For how long? I don't know, all I can say is do it for now, that is the happy ending for now.

Love has a tendency to smack you right in the face whether you like it or not.

I'm going to look back at myself the last semester and school year. When I had a crush on a girl, got really close, got backstabbed by a friend, me and the girl slowly went apart, I had to suffer seeing her and getting heavy remorse and sorrow every school day for the rest of the school year.

What was on my mind? Lots of possible scenarios, how I would speak to the girl, how I would act, how she would react, does she like me still, and all that. All that was able to go through my voice after all that was a wimps "Hey". That was heartbreaking... every day just the same... It was my last year at that school and I never got the chance to really enjoy my last time with my friends since all I was doing was suffering. :\

I really don't know that much about relationships, as I've never been in one. I say sleep on it, think about it for a few days, and then make your decision. That's what I do when I can't decide.

What? I'm wrong?

I forgot to include that the one I love I rarely meet on the forums and probably won't be able to meet in real life in several years. If I want a future with her it would conflict greatly with my studies, interests, and future career. See, I got a great deal things on my mind, but I don't speak of it so often.

Well even if you "gave up" it wouldn't change how you feel. I say wait.

What, I am?

I expected a bash and was reluctantly wanting to see the message. ._.

Hmm....to be honest I'm sure what else to say. Sorry.

This is looking like a one sided sympathy party now...

Dude, wake up! It isn't the end of the world! Don't act like you are suffering through hell. Loneliness is though I know but if you just let yourself drown in self pity like this of course it's gonna get you hard.

I've suffered through pain, not pain from loneliness but from lies, deceit, betrayal, disrespect, from close ones I've never even suspected to do something like that against me. But I just sit down, shut up, thinking of what I can do next, trying to move forward and act accordingly.
Try to do the same. :\

Never listen to the friends of a potential girlfriend. Just don't.

Who said that? I'm pretty sure it meant something to her.

If I got a hug like that it would mean alot. I've never gotten hugs from anyone outside family. ;_;

Ohh... Sounds sweet. :3

How come? Something happened or was it just a friendly hug?

You can't ask her for a hug then? A friendly hug of course.

Want her to hug you? :3

Need a cookie for your troubles? :3

Ohh...

Man... it really sucks to be you right now, doesn't it? T_T

But a friend who she really likes, no? She just don't want to mess anything up, right?

But since you are like best friends don't you know her better than her other friends?

You don't ask why and just believe in that? Aren't you two like best friends?