ok...so in the summer i had to go to my dads, which is like seven states away...so we really missed eachother and said some things on the phone that weren't the most appropriate...so her mom finds out and is like,"u and my daughter are through unless u write me a paper on ur love for her and include something on domestic abuse...and u have to do this in one week." so i was pretty depressed and suicidal...my best friend, who's a girl and woulda been my girlfriend if i hadn't moved...so her and i talk and think about getting together and say how we love eachother...but really..it wasn't my fault..i was in a weak state and i didn't think i'd have a chance of fixing things with my gf...well after a day or two, i decided that i'd have to choose one or the other...so i wrote the stupid paper and we were able to get back together...but my gf doesn't like my friend so i felt really bad...and told her i cheated cuz i felt so bad....