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Why? D:

Don't give up! You have to look for signs.

You should wait. It will give her some time to think. Just be a friend in the meantime, no?

Well, honestly, reading that, I would've taken that the same way as you did.

I wouldn't know I'm not friends with her. XD

Okay man, good luck with everything you do. Let me know how it goes ^_^

Cloudo! -insert some mombo jumbo on japanese-

How are you faring?

Reading the VMs it sounds to me like you need to give her time and space to date other guys. I know that REALLY sucks, but if that's what she wants to do then you gotta let her do it. For awhile. Don't wait forever though. None of this bursting in on her wedding day screaming "I object!" ok?

Well, you can't force someone to like you. If she doesn't feel the same way then you just have to respect that and be a really good friend. If you're there for her and act as a support for her she will see that and may even realize that she likes you a lot to. Sometimes its love at first sight and sometimes it takes a little longer.

In your VMs you said that her ex BFs have hurt her. This is what I mean when I say you need to be her support. Be open and loving (in a friend kinda way). She probably wants someone that can make her feel protected, so if you can offer that then she may very well want to deepen her relationship with you.

This is one of those things you gotta be patient with. DON'T force her to like you. Don't be flirty and cute if its obvious she doesn't feel the same way. That is the easiest way to ruin a friendship.

I was friends with my GF before I went out with here. I guess it depends on who you would call/value a friend. In this case, those who went out with her before, she would of know before hand in a sense. Friendship should come first in any relationship, you should never just say yes to anyone. You'll get used and hurt and everything. So just because you're friends with her, doesn't mean you're not an option.

You can't say that she won't go out with you, because she has learnt from the past not to date friends. Because that means she's never really given you a chance, and that's quite unfair. Try and make this clear to her, in a nice and polite way.

Sure thing. What's on your mind?

I'll see what I can do for you ^_^

Why, what's wrong? =/

Help with what my friend?

Sure, just let me know what you want ^_^

Yeah, I'd say to stay positive. I know that is going to hurt man. But who is to say she will even get anyone? You don't know yet, so stay hopeful man.

Btw, would you like me to make you a Signature? I've been messing around with images all day on my computer.

Sorry I wasn't around GGC >_<

She could like you. Or maybe she just really values your friendship? She isn't with anyone herself, so you have as good a chance as anyone else does. And even if she says to you she doesn't feel the same, that doesn't mean that she won't change her mind. For instance, she may not be with anyone at the end of the year. And if you've kept all those feelings for her up until then, and she sees that you still like her, maybe she will change her mind in the end. Just stay positive and optimistic, that's all I can say. You're a good guy, so don't think you're not. As I've said before, I'd go out with you if I were a chick.

Show your love for her then.

I have no idea what else to do. >.<

Cr@p, my last message should've said 'DONT be so hard on yourself'

Don't mind me asking, but, What did she say?

Well... uhh... something. >.<

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There is no loss, right? You both like each others.

Then she should know, right? Why hesitate when she knows how you are? :huh: